How To Get Out Of A Bad Relationship |
Posted: May 9, 2019 |
When we enter into a relationship, the thought that it will turn sour probably never crosses the mind. Being too focused on the nuance of a new connection to think anything could go wrong or the person we are with could turn out to be someone we don’t know, don’t like, or will treat us poorly, is almost a sure thing. Relationships can go bad for many reasons, and being in toxic relationships is not suitable for either party. Recognizing the warning signs early on can help prevent years wasted with someone that isn’t right for you, won’t treat you the way you should be treated, and even stunt your growth in life. Toxic relationships are the hardest to leave. There can be a pull to the other person, or the other person is controlling. If you are the toxic person, recognizing the hurtful behavior you do when with your partner should be your first step. Once you have identified the need to escape a bad situation or toxic relationship, how do you do it a way that you won’t fall back into the old routine or accept the apology of the person who has hurt you or kept you down? Statistically, females have a harder time leaving bad relationships. This doesn’t mean that gender is inherently weak; it means that women are typically more emotional. Women also have a higher chance of not wanting to be alone, which can make it even more challenging leaving a situation. If you are a lady, how many times have you talked to your other friends, complaining about your situation but have never done anything about it? Most, if they have been in a bad relationship has. The first step you will want to do when ending a relationship is to make a plan. If you live together it can feel overwhelming figuring out who has to move, can you support yourself on just your income and so on. Making plans to leave can be one of the best ways to get out of a relationship that is doing you no good, but you fear that if you don’t have a firm foundation, you’ll revert back. Know that once you end the relationship, you should never go back. There are no apologies in the world that can undo the damage that another person has done, no matter if it is lying, cheating, or not being supportive. You must understand that a person will say whatever they need to keep the relationship, but once you know it is unhealthy the likelihood, it will change is almost zero.
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