The Best Investment for 2013 |
Posted: January 10, 2013 |
The Best Investment for 2013 Ben Franklin says an investment in knowledge is your best bet. Zig Ziglar says no one cares how much you know, till they know how much you care. What do I say? Thanks for asking. I’m a little of both: knowledge and caring…as long as it’s about YOU. Learn about yourself. Develop that self awareness. Then add the self care that owns it, takes responsibility and moves ahead with healthier choices. My idea of the best investment ANY of us can make is self care. No half hearted pretense here. No doing it so someone will like you or approve of you. Taking care of you because you are important. Said it before and I’ll say it again: self care is NOT being selfish. “But a good person sacrifices themselves.” Listen to me: sacrifice done from obligation is far different than sacrifice done from love. When you sacrifice from obligation, you resent doing it, and trust me, it shows. Your boss knows, your wife knows, your kids know…we all know. What makes you think someone who loves you wants to see you sacrifice? When I care about someone, I HATE to see them suffer or sacrifice. NEWS FLASH: If someone knows you’re sacrificing and they turn a blind eye to it, that’s NOT love and it never will be. Not what you want to hear, but pretending otherwise only prolongs and intensifies the misery. Get rid of anyone or anything that scorns you or lets you believe it’s wrong to take care of yourself. “But it’s my mother[father, sister, husband, child, boss, etc.].” Ok, then. Stay in the miserable situation. It’s only your life. And besides, it’s not so bad……is it? No one’s gonna choose you if you don’t do it first. Invest in the best – you.
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