Shrink Wrap Your Problem |
Posted: September 17, 2014 |
Shrink Wrap Your Problem This idea may sound a little off the beaten path, but wow did it help me "reframe" something I'd been struggling with a loooong time. Shrink wrapping! Who knew? Here's the story.... "This person is so selfish, passive aggressive, emotionally cold [ blah, blah blah]! And I've been so good to them; I don't deserve this!" Let's get honest. I brought my share of dysfunstion to the table; we always do. So I stopped the pity party, owned my part in "creating the crap-dom", but this time, something magical happened. As I allowed myself to see [not judge] my part of the problem, I allowed myself to see the reality of THEIR part, too! [Not the illusion I had concocted.] MORE IMPORTANTLY, I saw how big a part I was letting the past have in my Now. Here's where the shrink wrap enters.... Sound too simple to work? That's the ego whispering in your ear, Peaches. To your New Now.
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