A relationship is not easy in itself. What began once as a high-altitude flight comes to somebody on the ground. Then it is about telling each other. No easy matter and one that failed not infrequently. If it is still a weekend relationship, there is another problem.To maintain a healthy relationship send love paragraphs for your girlfriend
Weekend connections have the advantage, on the one hand, that they do not slip off so quickly in everyday life, but on the other hand they are usually lacking these everyday features. If you only look at the weekend, you are inclined to pack in this short time everything you missed the week. Thus the meeting at the weekend is often a goal of the yearning and is thereby not infrequently a disappointment of the exorbitant expectations.
This is exactly what must be avoided. Each of the participants comes from another week. Perhaps she did not go so well for the one, but for the other perhaps very particularly well. One may want to recover from the failures, the other wants to celebrate his successes. This should be adjusted. In a "normal" relationship the events are then shared with each other when they happen. In a week-end relationship they are practically reworked. Here you have to have a lot of empathy, understanding and the willingness to accept the partner's needs.
Another important challenge for weekend connections is trust. If you only look at the weekend, jealousy can develop very quickly. Jealousy is deadly for every relationship, but it is even more so for weekend connections. If you are eager to eat in jealousy hundreds of miles away, you can really suffer. In the worst case, the consequence is that you make your partner's life hell, just because he was not reachable. Trust in the partner's affection, as well as the awareness of one's own love is the key to success here.
Weekend connections need a lot of tolerance and just as much self-confidence. Only whoever lives his own life can let the other live his life. The exchange of these two worlds of experience can lead to a wonderful weekend
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