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TALKING ABOUT SEX IS STILL DIFFICULT FOR MANY PEOPLE Posted: June 16, 2021 @ 4:02 am |
No matter how intense is your relationship with your partner, you can never fully understand sexual impotence from a man's perspective. Even though he tries to give you pleasure in all sorts of ways, an erection serves to prove to himself that he is still capable of making love, and when that fails, guilt and insecurity take over. Whatever is the cause, the consequences affect both of you. After all, psychological well-being is important for a good relationship, not just during sex. If you want to know how to help a man who is going through this, there are effective ways to help him get through it as well as possible, with understanding and good communication being important steps. HOW TO TALK TO YOUR PARTNER Unfortunately, talking about sex is still difficult for many people, it is a taboo subject that sometimes causes shame in couples, which only reinforces the lack of communication that is so necessary for a good relationship. The difficulty of trying to anticipate your partner's thoughts, concerns and desires about sex can be overcome through a relationship based on trust, respect and a sense of security, and through the sharing of experiences, which increases the chances of restoring happiness and well-being to the couple. Talking about your likes and dislikes, fantasies, being honest and non-hurtful, always being open to negotiation and taking some risks are some of the steps needed to find the most appropriate solutions for both lifestyles. A willingness to reveal some of the things you have been hiding and to soften the conversation with good humor and jokes will help in this process. Addressing his pain by showing your point of view in an emotional way will help him to come out of his defences. His desire to please you causes him to overcome many obstacles, including the shame of admitting that he has erectile dysfunction. UNDERSTANDING THE SITUATION As well as having a good conversation, it is worth trying to understand as much as possible about what erectile dysfunction is and how it affects men physically and psychologically. Erectile dysfunction is characterised by the fact that the main source of the problem is related to emotional problems, which account for about 70% of cases. The remaining 30% are due to organic factors, which can be vascular, neurological, hormonal or even changes in the anatomy of the penis. The problem is more common than we think. According to a study by the Brazilian Society of Urology (SBU), about 50% of Brazilian men over the age of 40 suffer from erectile dysfunction. In most cases, the main cause of impotence is anxiety, which blocks the erection mechanism. The doubts and uncertainties that are natural in the sexual moment can overwhelm a man, who may be afraid of not being able to satisfy a partner he is particularly interested in, or of failing again if he ever did. In most cases of erectile dysfunction, treatment with pharmacological drugs is indicated, except in certain contraindications. In the most severe cases, it may be accompanied by psychotherapy. In specific situations caused by chronic diseases, such as severe diabetes mellitus, prostate surgery, penile lesions, neurological changes, vascular and nervous alterations or failure of prescribed medication, other treatments/pills like Kamagra, Viagra, Levitra etc can be a way out. The active compound of Kamagra is Sildenafil Citrate. Sildenafil causes dilating the blood vessels in the body — particularly around the genital area. This allows stronger blood flow and therefore enables an erection. However, it is always advisable to consult a doctor before starting any treatment on your own. So always talk to your doctor before taking ANY medication for erectile dysfunction. Some erectile dysfunction medications like Kamagra are not suitable for men with certain medical conditions, and your doctor can advise you on an alternative. Certain lifestyle and psychological factors, such as smoking, drinking, and stress, can have impact on erectile dysfunction. Drinking alcohol after taking Kamagra may lower medicine effectiveness and decrease sexual performance.
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